Hello and welcome to the November edition of Talking To Animals newsletter. November is traditionally the
month of gratitude and reflecting on the abundance in our lives. We take time out to honor all the good
things in our lives.
Seldom has this had a truer meaning for me and many others who lives were touched by the recent rash
of fires in /southern California. Eight days later we can still smell smoke from the fires in the nearby
canyons, so dry after no significant rain for several years. Fires began to quickly ignite through the 5
counties, stretching firefighters and residents to the breaking point. Qualcomm Stadium in San Diego
and the nearby Del Mar Racetrack were quickly turned into evacuation shelters as were other sites in
the southland. At one time, there were 750,000 people in evacuation centers.
What have we learned from Hurricane Katrina and other recent disasters? All the government agencies
involved in evacuations have learned that people and animals are better when when they are allowed
to be together. The national PETS (Pets Evacuation and Transportation Standards) Act, passed in the
wake of Katrina requires that any government entity requesting federal funds to help with disaster
recovery first have in place a plan that includes provisions for evacuating pets.
The TV footage showed tired, but calm owners and their pets inside the shelters with pets ranging
from dogs and cats to ferrets and rabbits. Larger animals were also housed in open areas away from
the wind-driven fires.. Many local vets provided free boarding for displaced owners. Everyone pitched
in to help any way they could. There was such an outpouring of help that they finally had to ask for
people to hold off on donations of food, blankets and equipment, they had no more room to store the
donations.
Rescuers and government agencies are beginning to understand that, to many of us, animals' lives
are every bit as important as our own. My pets are family members. They are whom I share my life
with. They are my life. I find it refreshing to know that we are finally starting to get that message
across. Hurricane Katrina was a horrific experience for so many. The heart-wrenching stories of
loss will be in America's hearts for year's to come.
I saw better evacuations and coordination of services for people who lost everything in a matter
of minutes.The recovery process will continue for a long time to come. Other events will become
more newsworthy--life goes on. The fire survivors feel grateful for being alive and having the opportunity
to rebuild their lives one step at a time. They are beginning the road to recovery, the human spirit is,
after all, resilient.
May we all put aside our minor gripes and grievances for a time and savor the sweetness of life
and all that we have been blessed with. Spend time with your pets by looking into their eyes for a
minute. Our animals that share our lives feel that everyday is Thanksgiving in their hearts, no matter
what the circumstances. I saw that in the eyes of the animals in the evacuation centers. Thankful to
be with their families. To them, that was the greatest joy of all.
Saving one pet won't change the world: but it will sure change the world for that one pet.
"I love cats because I enjoy my home; and little by little, they become its visible soul." ~ Jean Cocteau
"If a dog will not come to you after having looked you in the face, you should go home and examine your
conscience."~Woodrow Wilson
"What is man without the beasts? If all the beasts were gone, man would die from a great loneliness of
spirit. For whatever happens to the beasts, also happens to the man."~Chief Seattle
"A really companionable and indispensable dog is an accident of nature. You can't get it by breeding and
you can't buy it with money."~E.B. White
"Man is an animal that makes bargains; no other animal does this. No dog exchanges bones with
another."~Adam Smith
"Nature's laws are the invisible government of the earth."~Alfred Montapert
"A bird does not sing because it has an answer. It sings because it has a song." ~ Chinese Proverb
Sometimes working with an animal with serious problems requires a multi-prong effort to get the desired
results. Using just one approach to resolve the problem does not fully "get it right", especially when the
problem has to do with difficult behavior issues.
I was contacted to work with "Lucy", a cat who was driving her owners crazy with her aggressive behavior. At
times, for no apparent reason, she would attack her owners, biting and scratching them. They were unusually
accepting and tolerant of her behavior, but finally they had hit the wall! When the owner told me of the numerous
times this had happened to them, I said I wished I had a certificate to give them that read, "Thanks for hanging
in there!" because most people would have gotten rid of her a long time before.
I did some work with Lucy, but found that she was unwilling to fully communicate with me, which hindered my
ability to help her. I soon realized that Lucy's problems were complicated and they were of a type that would
not easily resolve through communication alone. I knew that to fully address her issues, another practitioner
would be needed.
Because of my background and the extensive training I continue to undergo as an Animal Communicator, I
felt that using TTouch as the next step was the right one for Lucy. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what
it is, TTouch (it used to be called "Tellington Touch") was developed by Linda Tellington-Jones and is a series of
clockwise manipulations of the soft body tissue of the animal. The aim is to integrate mind and body through movement
and manipulation. These manipulations are very gentle, and seem to be very soothing to animals. TTouch is an excellent
modality for many health and behavior problems, and I knew it had been successful with fear-based behavior.
I have a colleague who is a certified TTouch practitioner so I contacted her and told her of Lucy's bizarre behaviors
and the I work I'd done thus far. Cynde, the TTouch practitioner, made a home visit to meet Lucy and her owners
and to quietly observe Lucy at home. What Cynde learned during her visit to Lucy's home was very interesting.
Using her training and keen observational skills, Cynde was able to quickly see that the problems stemmed
from more of a visual perception problem Lucy had. With the problem better defined, Cynde was able to work with
Lucy and her owners to achieve the desired results everyone was hoping for (including Lucy).
I will let Cynde and Lucy's owners tell you what happened during the process and what they learned in the "Story
from my files: Lucy, the cat that would not purr" which appears below.
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4. A STORY FROM MY FILES - LUCY, THE CAT WHO WOULD NOT PURR
Dear readers,
Here is the story of Lucy as told by Lucy's owners:
"Right now I am sitting on our couch, touching and stroking our beautiful 2½ year old Ragdoll (breed) cat, Lucy, looking over
the recent past. I am struck by the fact that just a few short months ago this cozy scene would have been just a dream.
Although now I am able to touch Lucy,I am very aware of how lucky we are and what changes have occurred in the last few
months . . . changes that have literally led to Lucy’s life being spared.
Back when she first became a part of our lives, Lucy was a cat with problems. She would not purr and would not let anyone
touch her without the threat of an ‘incident’ occurring. Our daughter rescued Lucy from a family who wanted to put her down
due to her biting.At the time she was still a kitten and so we thought we could turn this behavior around by providing all the love,
tenderness and wonderful care we could give.Needless to say she grew up to be a beautiful cat.Her soft blue eyes would
lure anyone to believe she was as gentle as she looked.
But in reality. . . she was to be feared.She would viciously bite, unprovoked, and in fact would charge at us out of the blue and
attack.These bites were severe enough to send Cyndy (my wife) and me to seek medical help.We were at our wits end.
After one of our biting incidences we had a visit from Animal Control.Lucy now has a record and was quarantined by County
officials.In our desperation we inquired about giving her up to the local shelter.We were told that the shelters would not
take her and in fact they would euthanize her because of her behavior.
A friend and co-worker of mine told me about an animal communicator named Charlene Boyd.Perhaps she would be
able to talk to Lucy and find out the whys and remedies from Lucy herself.Unfortunately, Lucy would not open up to Charlene.
Charlene suggested that we try six different flower essences to help Lucy with her emotions and perhaps a little attitude
adjustment.Nothing seemed to work.At this point we were beyond desperation.We loved our girl so much and although
euthanizing her seemed extreme, it might be the only way to keep us, our little grandson and anyone who entered our home safe.
This was the last alternative, and we were not ready to give up on Lucy just yet.
Charlene suggested that we call in a TTouch Practitioner named Cynde Van Vleet.One of Cynde’s first observations of Lucy
was that she did not seem to be aware of her body, therefore her boundaries.Without this awareness it was virtually impossible
to communicate with Lucy except through the most primal needs such as food.Through her work with Lucy, and training for
Cyndy and me, we’re now seeing favorable changes in Lucy’s behavior.
In the past Lucy did not seem to have an “off” button.Even while playing with our other cat, Marley, she would continue to play
until it resulted in a fight.Now, she seems to be aware of limits and will pace herself.Cynde helped us to understand how to
communicate with Lucy using the language of the animals called “calming signals”.By being aware of our posture as well as
Lucy’s, we were able to circumvent behaviors before things got out of control.Cynde taught us to respect Lucy’s limits and how
to set boundaries and guidelines for Lucy.Included in the many ah-ha moments during Cynde’s consult was the fear that Lucy
seems to have of hands.It all became crystal clear that through our desire to help our girl we were feeding the fear.Once she
was able be touched using other devices as an extension of our hands, she started paying attention to the experience.
Lucy seldom ever bites now and in fact when she does she doesn’t break the skin.She seems to have the ability to think things
through before acting.
Cynde told us that after Lucy has had the experience of the mindful work of TTouch over time, we may see behaviors and changes
in her that we had never seen before.I am now realizing what she was talking about.Lucy never knew how to “make biscuits” the
way that other cats do.She would bounce on both front feet, as if she was trying to forcefully perform CPR.She now will gently make
biscuits in a rhythmic alternating motion.
Oh, and something else . . . now she purrs! "
I hope you enjoyed Lucy's success story. Lucy's owners were unwilling to give up on her and through their love and persistence in finding a solution to the problem, they share a very strong relationship and deep love today.
Charlene
PS. In a few days I will be sending out a special announcement about an upcoming educational series I am doing. I hope
you are able to attend!
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Here is a link to the Humane Society's slide show of the fires in Southern California and the rescue of the
animals affected by the fire. Our deepest thanks to all who helped in the rescue effort.
These are touching photos and they serve as a reminder of those things that are precious and that
we are thankful for.
6. FROM THE BOOKSHELF - OLD DOG AND THE CHRISTMAS WISH
FROM THE BOOKSHELF
From the author of For Every Dog An Angel and For Every Cat An Angel, two books that deal with pet
loss and the eternal bonds of love we share with our pets in spirit, comes Old Dog and the Christmas
Wish. This book is filled with beautiful illustrations that celebrate the Christmas season from the eyes
and heart of an old, forgotten dog. The old dog realizes that suddenly anything is possible on this very
special night. It's possible after reading this book you may begin to see your animal companions in
with a different perspective. The author hopes that you will see them with stars in your eyes. This is
sure to become a family favorite during the holidays!
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The days are definitely shorter and as I am out and about, I smell the cozy scent of fireplaces being
used for the first time this fall. What a different smell from the arson-caused fires a couple of weeks ago!
There is a peacefulness and calm in our neighborhood. The streets are empty; children are now inside
instead of out playing with friends.
November is the month to reflect on our many blessings and give thanks for the abundance we have in our
country. Sure, there are still many concerns ranging from rising oil prices to the threat of global warming,
but we can take time out to to be grateful for all that is right and good in our country. We are still the land
of the free,and our troops are valiantly trying to bring that sense of freedom to war-torn countries in the
Middle East. At the end of each day I have a notebook that I began writing 5 things each day that I was grateful
for. As we know, not every day is a sunny day in our lives, but when I hit those times, I will take out that
notebook and read what I have been grateful for in the past. I find that those thoughts really don't change
that much over time, and as I read my journal I am filled with a deeper sense of what is real and what is true
for me. It helps me focus on the really important things, people and accomplishments that give my life a sense
of purpose and meaning.
May you take time out to reflect on all that is wonderful in your life and have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
See you in December!
Blessings,
Charlene
PS As always, I love to get your input on my newsletters. As you might guess, a lot of work goes into
them each month. Please don't hesitate to share any thoughts or comments you might have on what
I've included, and I enjoy some of the suggestions I've received from you on things you'd like to see me
discuss in upcoming issues. You can always email me. My address is charlene@talk-to-animals.com.
"I feel that my primary role as an animal communicator is to speak the truth for the animals.
By speaking their truth I am able to share with their owners their unique perspectives and spiritual
philosophies. The special bond that companion animals share with their owners is one that is built
on love and trust. Through this special relationship both owners and their animals have an opportunity
to experience love, trust and mutual understanding. It is the key to all relationships we develop with
our pets. As we become more sensitive to our pets, we learn that we are all One, created by the
same Divine spirit. Our ultimate goal is to live in harmony and joy with the animals we love and cherish."
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