Separation anxiety may be the most common behavioral problem in dogs. Dogs can not ask you where
you are going and when you will be home. They can’t be comforted by leaving a phone number where
you can be reached. If they are worriers, their only option is to worry. This can lead to behavioral problems
related to their stress if they exhibit it as inappropriate defecation or destruction of your home or
possessions. It is a tough situation.

A dog is a social animal. It wants to be with the family and being alone is not an entirely natural situation.
Some dogs can not adjust to this situation without help. As a puppy, a dog learns that making sounds brings
its mother to it. So barking, whining and crying are natural reactions when the dog wants to be reunited
with its family. It may also consider digging, scratching at the door or window and other behavior designed
to allow it to escape the house and rejoin its family to be “normal”. Dogs may become so anxious that they
tear up objects indiscriminately, defecate or urinate without control. If a dog is punished for these actions, the
resulting increase in anxiety can make the whole situation worse. It is best just to ignore the destruction if at
all possible. In order to treat the disorder, it is necessary to set aside some time to figure out exactly what is
happening and to help your dog adjust to separation.

1) The first thing you need to do is spy on your dog to figure out how long he or she waits before tearing up
stuff in your absence. Some dogs literally start in one minute or less. Others wait a half hour or an hour or
whatever. Once you have an idea of this you can work on the problem. It is also necessary to teach your dog
at least to “sit” and hopefully to “stay” prior to working on the actual behavioral problem.

2) A dog that is so nervous that it must be in the same room with you all the time requires working with sit
and stay until it can tolerate you being out of the room—then start to work on leaving the house. It can help
a great deal with steps 2 and 3 in this process to use an anti anxiety medication. Talk to your vet about this.
It is also very helpful to consider asking about referral to a certified veterinary or animal behaviorist for assistance

3) Leave for short periods and come right back—sometimes all you can do is stand outside the door for a
few seconds. Don’t stay away long enough for your dog to get upset. The idea is to lengthen the time gradually.
It may help to vary the time some so your dog can’t keep track of a “routine”. Keep this up until your dog is
comfortable with you gone for a reasonable length of time. Don’t make a big deal over coming back in—it is
best to greet the dog quietly or ignore it.

4) Once your dog can tolerate you being gone for an hour or two, it will probably be possible to make the jump
to longer durations without much problem. Usually, about the time your dog is very comfortable with being left
alone, it is best to begin a slow taper off of any behavioral medications used to help in the treatment of the
separation anxiety. Abruptly stopping the medications can lead to a relapse, so take a little time to wean your
dog off according to your veterinarian’s directions.